In a Grace-Filled Life after Addiction We Are Truly Never Alone!!!
In a Grace-Filled Life after Addiction We Are Truly Never Alone!!!
OH MY GOSH! PLEASE CONTACT TIM COOK AND MILES JACKSON AT CLARK COLLEGE – CLARK
COLLEGE IS CONSIDERING CUTTING THE ADDICTION PROGRAM – ACCORDING TO JIM JENSEN OF
CLARK COMMUNITY COLLEGE!!! WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 14, 2015 IS THE LAST DAY WE HAVE TO
VOICE OUR OPINION!!!
Daybreak Youth Services delivered today!!! Tara spoke eloquently about her
visit with the youth – their stories, her past, the need to listen to young people
at their level to truly understand that addiction is not a choice. How could we
shame a 14 year old for having a disease? Tara reports the youth at Daybreak
are brilliant. “They saved my life yesterday.” She was so impacted she
returned to her hotel room cried for an hour, prayed for 30 minutes and wrote 5
Annette, Director of Daybreak added that addiction among other things is an
outcome of the stress filled lives young people are faced with on a daily basis!
Tears welled up in Tara’s eyes as she pleaded with us to meet youth where they
are at and above all listen to what they have to say and we will hear what they
go through – if you dare you will hear stories of emotional and physical abuse
they endured and the cutting and using substances a feeble attempt to self-
medicate in order to cope with the pain. The immeasurable shame that follows
is palpable…Tara goes on stating “I dare anyone to accuse another of choosing
to be an addict when at tender age of 14 years young they are exposed to
trauma and being asked to keep it a secret – hence the muzzle.
Tara was asked about Donald Trump – She expressed her gratitude for helping
her get into treatment. “He saved my life.” It allowed her to move forward.
When he referred to people as “druggies and rapists” Tara shared how she felt
he set us backward many years.
Tara shares a final thought – “I needed someone to validate my pain so I could
The Director of Daybreak added the history of how Daybreak came to be with a
vision and not a clue of how they were going to make it happen. It is cheaper to
pay for someone’s college than prison. Let’s right this wrong!
It costs $309 dollars a day to incarcerate someone – Daybreak receives
approximately $188 – they depend on beautiful people – philanthropy to keep
providing services to their youth!
56 million people are affected by addiction.
Daybreak lost 4 treatment providers.
If it costs $500 billion a year – the money will come from the savings we recoup
from preventing addiction.
Treating adolescents at 15 is much more feasible than an adult deep into their
Talking to youth in middle school is the best – they will still open up about
their alcoholic parent. If we wait until they are in high school it is too late
because they have had “the shame muzzle put on them.”
Addiction kills three times more than cancer.
Anonymous People a great film that reminds us we need to shift our focus from
thinking of addiction as a man under a bridge to the need to talk to our kids.
Early intervention empowers our youth.
80% of prisoners were addicts – there is also a need for services as they get
My heart was so delighted to see one of my all time favorite people, Shane!!!
It was so groovy to catch up with each other!!! Shane thank you for all that
you do My Friend!!! You continue to impress the heck out of me!!!
I met with Tara afterward and thanked her – she was very kind.
She demonstrated with her actions her passion to inspire others as she spoke
with Shelby a beautiful young person who is also aspiring to be a Miss USA.
As I left with a huge smile in my heart to enjoy this amazing meal that fed my
hunger on so many levels I got a little lost and Shelby was so gracious to help
me find my way!!! We walked out into the parking lot together – Shelby shared her
thoughts on substance use – “I never considered using because it would get in
the way” of everything she hopes to achieve!!! 23 years young as she waved
goodbye and climbed into her hummer…picture perfect…
Squeal… thank you
Daybreak Youth Services!!!
My Grace-Filled Life After Addiction Is!!!
“Shame and Addiction” via tTim Craley!!!”
“Addiction and shame go hand in hand. It is hard to understand where one starts and the other ends. Addiction leaves us feeling powerless, isolated, and unworthy. There is a strong sense of secrecy and silence about addiction. It is something that is easier to hide and just not talk about. Understanding our shame allows us to move into self-acceptance and healing.”
Goal of Training
Shame lies at the very heart of the disease of addiction. The goal of this training is to give clinicians, or anyone in a therapeutic relationship with addicts of any kind, the knowledge and tools to both recognize and effectively treat shame. Participants will be able to understand the various synonyms for shame, which they can use in their practice. The trainer will present on the work of Brene Brown as well as the program of Alcoholics Anonymous and all its various iterations. Participants will have the opportunity to demonstrate an awareness of how to provide empathy for their clients and how to direct clients to nurture it within their own relationships. The participants will understand the common belief systems and shame patterns in Adult Children of Alcoholics as well as the concept of “Carried Shame”. Research presented will include but not be limited to Brene Brown, Mark Williams, Jon Kabat Zinn, Ernest Kurtz, Janet Woititz and the AA and NA programs respectively. This training is appropriate for all skill levels and combines elements applicable to each of the NAADAC Eight Counselor Skill Groups.
For Information Contact:
Fax: 1-360-557-5032 (vFax)
So the drive was fierce!!! I arrived at 11 pm on Thursday night….I was so impressed with Eric’s presentation – lots of new info and Bless His Heart he agreed to present for us at the Chemical Dependency Training Consortium of the NW!!! That is one you do not want to miss!!! More details to come!!!
There was a gentleman Mark who shared the importance of talking to our legislature… or else what ever happens will happen to us!!! Then another new favorite presenter is Dr. Kelly Olson – she provided a heartfelt presentation on synthetic and emerging drugs!!! Gosh – An example is young people are taking a string and dipping it in cough syrup that has DXM and sucking on it…It supposedly makes for a greater high…Gosh – Then Susan shared her passion working with people who struggle with addiction and helped us expand on the four square – pros and cons of using and not using!!!
Then I was up and presented on Self Care – and as I put this presentation together and attended a board meeting where we talked about numbers of attendees ebbingg and flowing and it appears there are many reasons for this – however I noticed it kind of pushed my buttons. I have been with the Consortium for a while and as most of you know I select jobs based on their willingness to allow me to attend the board meeting and educational professional growth opportunities…a lot of the feedback appears to be – the agency won’t allow it because it affects their bottom line – or they won’t pay for it so the employee would need to use their PTO and or own finances to cover the costs.
My button got pushed – because it almost feels unethical – like being kicked out of a residential treatment center for using…if many of our counselors are in recovery…they need that connection with other professionals – All professionals who work with vulnerable populations are vulnerable themselves – for example vulnerable to burnout or compassion fatigue, relapse or even suicide. Offering their own trainers is a bit better however offering web in-service education is so deficient of the networking, support, camaraderie that promotes and develops the best counselors ever!!!
So – this little video may reflect my thoughts a bit strongly – To keep it on the positive note …Thank you to agencies who do promote mental health wellness to their counselors via supporting their professional growth!!!
A Grace Filled Life After Recovery Includes Continued Education, Networking and Support!!! Right???
I am once again so blessed to be a part of this amazing world!!! Last I saw Eric he reported he had shown us all he had as one of our favorite presenters at the Chemical Dependency Training Consortium of the Northwest! Hearing that my immediate response at the time was – then I will have to follow you!!! Not knowing the hows – I applied The Secret and visualized seeing him present!!! Thank You Scott -you made it happen for me!!! I will be helping out and I will be the speaker during our lunch!!! Squeal – I am so incredibly stoked, and nervous!!! And especially tickled how the universe works!!!
**MARIJUANA** EMERGING NATURAL AND SYNTHETIC DRUGS OF ABUSE**
LAW AND ETHICS** COUNSELOR LAW CHANGES** CLINICAL SUPERVISION**
COUNSELOR SELF CARE** SUICIDE RISK ASSESSMENT (MEETS 3HR WAC REQUIREMENT)
Eric is the Past President and Director Emeritus of the Addiction Counselor Certification Board of Oregon (ACCBO). He is an adjunct faculty member with the University of Oregon and a contract instructor with Oregon’s Child welfare Division. Eric is a state and nationally certified addictions counselor with 29 years of clinical experience in Inpatient psychiatric hospitalization, residential and outpatient addictions treatment, and prevention. He is an international presenter, has served on several Governor’s advisory boards, and has produced a number of videos currently being used nationwide. He is the recipient of the Governor’s Council Award of Excellence and the NADAAC Award for sustained and Meritorious service at the national level to the profession of addiction!!!
Rose received her MA in Systems Counseling from Bastyr University in 2001, and a BS in Developmental Psychology from Eastern Washington University in 1995. As a consultant, she specializes in SBIRT, Suicide Prevention, Clinical Supervision, Co-Occurring Disorders, and Counselor Ethics. She has received the Pioneer Human Services Dick Hudson award for Outstanding Counselor, is a member of the Skagit Valley County Behavioral Advisory Board, an Adjunct instructor at Skagit Valley College, and was a member of the ITA task force in 2014. She has been a CDP since 1997, and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor since 2005!!!
Kelly is the Associate Director of Clinical Affairs at Millennium Health. She is an experienced researcher in molecular neuro-pharmacology, as well as in clinical biology in the areas of mental illness, sleep, adrenal fatigue, and addictions. Dr. Olson has authored/co-authored a number of peer-reviewed articles, book chapters, and presentations, and has lectured extensively internationally, nationally, and locally. Dr. Olson has spent the majority of the past 7 years in integrative medicine, helping to improve patient clinical outcomes!!!
Mark is the Quality Assurance Manager at Sundown M. Ranch, the president of the Washington Department of Health CDP Advisory Committee, and a CARF surveyor. As a surveyor, he has experienced many treatment modalities in different states, and is well versed in state and federal laws relating to counselors!!!
Sharon is the Clinical Director of Assessment & Treatment Associates. She graduated with a Bachelor’s Degree in Social Work in 1993 and became certified as a CDP in 1996. She is also an instructor at Bellevue College in the Alcohol and Drug Counseling program teaching classes on DUI assessment, Family Systems, and Introduction to Counseling!!!
Guadalupe received her Bachelor’s Degree from U.C. Berkeley. She is a Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor 1, President of the Chemical Dependency Training Consortium of the Northwest, a Recovery Coach, Recovery Coach, a Certified Transformative Life Coach and an instructor at Portland Community College – Nicotine Cessation. As the founder of Grace On You, LLC, she specializes in self care, brief intervention, counseling, teaching healthy living skills. She is the creator of Mindful Smoking – a harm reduction approach for professionals to help individuals reduce their tobacco use!!!
G. Scott Sims BS, CDP
Columbia Treatment Services
7017 NE Hwy 99 Suite 114
Vancouver, WA 98665
It has been a tremendous few weeks with community events, providing groups, preparing curriculum and finally – adding a first to my list of accomplishments – teaching the first Nicotine Cessation Class at PCC. It started with a bang – students waiting outside the class – I invited them in early and greeted each one, thanking them for choosing this class!!!
A total of 44 students showed up Yikes! All appeared to be enthused to help some one quit or reduce their tobacco use or use the tools to help themselves!!! You know me that was music to my ears!!! We talked about the benefits to being a counselor in recovery vs what society refers to as a “normie!” I shared Katie Evans literature – in early recovery an individual may appreciate a counselor in recovery – However – according to Ms. Evans – a counselor not in recovery may work twice as hard to learn every possible road to recovery and he or she is not likely to be attached to any particular one – thus a person may appreciate choosing from a variety of options – practicing their independence for the very first time!!! Bottom line they both are beneficial and we celebrated both!!!
My roommate – I’ve kept her a secret far too long – she is an young, amazingly intelligent person with a passion for learning, helping others and a huge vision of what she wants her life to be like with her every move being intentional to achieve her goals!!! She writes inspiring quotes on the whiteboard!
Tonight I am especially grateful as we made a run – cookie dough, spicy popcorn, grapes, yogurt and cottage cheese as she helped me grade papers and create a spreadsheet to track my students’ progress!!!
I am so fortunate – I seem to attract such positive individuals in my life – Della, Patti, Lisa, Helene, Robert, Reed, my children and grandchildren, Kurt who teaches at PSU helped me when I let him know yesterday that I was scared! He was so kind stating that the fear was good however he said I give you 15 minutes and you are going to love it – he was so right. and Mary ( she may not be here now however her positive energy lives on in any life she touched – I’m sure). I know there are many more people I am grateful for – And now I can add each one of the students at PCC I am fortunate to work with!!!
Oh – I met the Division Dean of Allied Health and Emergency and Legal Services, John Saito, MPH who had the most delightful stories of his travels and educational journey and was kind to ask me about my own life experiences!!! He is a beautiful Japanese gentleman from Hawaii!!! Another beautiful person Corine Hiebert, Lead Administrative Assistant to Allied Health and Emergency and Legal Services! We laughed so hard and listened attentively to Mr. Saito’s thoughts as we recalled old outdated films about drugs.
Sarah in student services who took my picture – she was so kind however my picture turned out – scary – I had no idea I could look like I have an overbite!!! You know you are healthier when you can laugh at yourself!!! I was going to post it but no way – it looked so bad my very wonderful person who was my first contact at PCC -Jeri Reed even asked “What Happened?” and added “I am not going to lie to you” and gave me directions to return next week when the lines aren’t so long to plead for a retake!!!
Another Angel that happened my way is Ruth McKenna, MA, LPC Counselor at Disablity Services – took me under her wing and showed me the do’s and don’ts when serving individuals with the need for accommodations!!! I thanked her profusely as she shared tips that helped her when she was a teacher!!!
The beautiful day matched the positive climate of the PCC Campus!!!
I am so grateful to so many – because of you I am experiencing My Grace-Filled Life After Addiction!
If you know me you already know that I love chronicling the life events of loved ones!
One reason is because Denis Waitley talks about how with memories our brain doesn’t know if something is currently happening or happened in the past!
As I bring together these pictures with music I relive the wonderful times we are honored to share!!!
And according to Denis we release the exact same chemicals as when the events occurred!!! If it is a good experience we get good chemicals….I’m all about the delicious life affirming natural chemicals!!!
LeilLani thank you for giving us an abundance of good – delicious – life affirming chemicals!!! We are so blessed to have you in our lives. And a special thank you to all the family and loving friends who have contributed to this one person!!! It takes a village…
In this case,
Guadalupe aka “Grandma G”
MARY CECILIA THOMPSON
August 31, 1954 ~ September 20, 2010
“She will be missed by all who knew her and depended on her. ”
– See more at: http://obits.columbian.com/obituaries/columbian/obituary.aspx?n=mary-cecilia-thompson&pid=145581588#sthash.2cWdUegN.dpuf
Dearest Mary – September 20th is here however although that you are not please please know that you are still thought of… 2010 seems so long ago but when I close my eyes and open my heart to the lovely memories you gifted so many it’s as if it were yesterday.
Today I still remember how you used to bring vegetables in a plastic zip lock bag and you would always offer us some! As you shared food, wonderful stories and words of encouragement with your amazing passion carrots pieces would be flying!!!
Anyone else, I would struggle with – to sit through that – but not you because your heart was so pure -it continues to be delightful memory that I will cherish forever! The psychiatric nurse practitioner dinners our friend Della would invite me to added to my admiration of you because you always had the best questions and commentaries!!! I miss the time and space we used to share.
You created a sense of safety like no one I know thus I was compelled to share bits of my story – for instance that I grew up very hungry. Food was always a scarce commodity. That made those little boxes of cereal that you snuck from the physicians lounge that much more delicious because they fed my stomach but even more so they fed my soul! I will always remember coming to work at Peace Health Southwest then Southwest Washington Medical Center and finding little cereal boxes on my desk with your caring notes “I have to keep my Guadaloop fed!”
Now you are gone…and I miss my friend…I looked up to you…you guided me and helped me and many others through our own difficult times and you helped us to see our strengths. And even the last time I saw you…you took the time to ask me how my grandson was…even though you were in pain…I am so sorry that I was not there for you like you were there for me…I am so grateful to learn later that other friends were there for you …I am so sad for the world, myself included and at the same time I am so incredibly grateful for the period of time we shared!
Your caring words of wisdom resonate deep within me and make me strive to be strong…thank you my friend. I am sending this to you with loving thoughts…I know you touched so many people but one of your greatest gifts was that you made each one of us feel extremely special…thank you
Lafa and Trinidad – Ingredients of Everlasting Love
Your union is a song that hasn’t been sung.
Liken to a bell that’s about to be rung.
The want that has led you into each other’s arms
Began with self love a most mystical charm
Brings Interdependence – a community of lives intertwined
Sing it, Ring it, Choose it, Give it and
Always and forever kiss each other goodnight
Ingredientes del Amor siempre duradero
Su union es una cancion que no ha sido cantado.
Como una campana que esta a punto de ser sonado.
El deseo que le ha llevado a los brazos del otro
Comenzo con el amor propio un encanto mas mistico
Trae Interdependencia – una comunidad de vidas entrelazadas
Cantalo, Suenalo, Eligelo, Dalo y
Siempre y para eternidad besarse buenas noches
September has been filled with learning, growing and stretching even beyond what I thought possible!!! And it doesn’t seem to slow down – but that’s wonderful Right??? I am sad to say that I was unable to attend the last CDTCNW training – the need for self care prevailed… I am so sorry I let you down. I can’t wait to attend the board meeting to hear what I missed!!! You can see on the upcoming events page the flurry I am referring to!!!
Wrapping up the month of September with opening up this post for comments, feedback and questions –
I place an exclamation at the end of this announcement because my experience and memories of Mary were just that!!! Filled with love and mutual heartfelt compassion!!! Mary Thompson was the most wonderful role model I could ever ask for and although she has been gone since September 10, 2010…she lives in my heart every single day!!!
September 24th – will be my first day as an instructor at PCC! I absolutely know Mary would be so incredibly happy to hear that!!!
October 2nd and 3rd- Guadalupe will be at the conference in Ellensburg – thank you to Scott Sims for making that possible!!! He heard my passion for Eric Martin’s presentations and used his creative intelligence to offer me an opportunity to share Mindful Smoking and partake in this awesome event!!!
October 5th and 6th – Guadalupe will be attending the Freedom From Smoking training for facilitators through the American Lung Association!!! This helped open the door for me to be an instructor – Nicotine Cessation – at PCC! A special thanks to Jonny for seeing my enthusiasm and offering me the opportunity!!!
Additionally, Scott of Columbia Treatment Services in Vancouver offered me the opportunity to join his team – I am now a CDPT which Jonny reports will open up the doors for me to teach additional Alcohol and Drug classes!!!
I am so delighted to hear that Cedar Hills Hospital is going tobacco free soon and the clinical director has asked me to offer my enthusiasm for nicotine cessation with their staff!!!
I am continuing to work as a life skills coach with Jaime Chavez and his team at Cedar Counseling Center!!! I have enjoyed witnessing individuals shift from hurt people hurt people mode – to learn to love themselves which opens them to love and respect others!!!
I am sad to announce that I am saying goodbye to my position at Golden Dawn Clinic due to my full schedule – however we will stay connected – I am blessed to have made friends for life there!!! Plus the sky dive experience Dr. Tran offered us as a team building experience was absolutely life changing!!!
Thank you everyone for everything that you do! You all are a true blessing to this world!!!
My Grace-Filled Life After Addiction Continues To Be Grace-Filled Thanks To All Of You!!! I look forward to seeing you at the next event!!!